Love. The abstract thing of our lives. The intangible portion we can’t quantify. But however, we can’t deny the fact that each and everyone is trying to measure the love. Hence, I’m hooked to the song from Baby - Ai Qing Bu Neng Zuo Bi Jiao.Thinking about it, do you think it can be measured and compared? Certainly we do. Comparing from the every single thing. Those that can be seen, and grab hold off. Then how we comparing to it? Just like the song title, “How Deep is Your Love?” So, if you think the person treat you nice, good looking and love you more. But in what sense?
I mean, come on. Let’s face it. I manage to think of some ways to measure it. We begin with the oral expression. Yes. Oral but not oral sex. Not that your partner loves you more when they perform oral sex on you. Let me rephrase it again. Verbal expression. Do you think their love is deep if given that they expressing their love every day. Or even every hour or single minute? That everyday and night they keep saying that three words, “I LOVE YOU???” To tell you the truth, I am not a person that able to express love verbally. Expecting me to say the three letter words is tougher than cracking the Da Vinci Code. Guess that’s why my ex was pissed off because I never expressed the three letter words when I was with her.
The other way to measuring love which I can barely think of is the minor gifts. So, some would say she/he loves me not when there’s no longer surprise. Of course people love to have received the gift once a while. The issue here is that the certain people doesn’t necessary love to do that. A good scenario here is that one day, you come home and find that suddenly there’s gift for you. A bouquet of flowers for example. Surprised? Of course. But measuring something like gift isn’t a very good way to measure love. What do you think?
Some smart ass might think that love can be measured by services. What you do for her/him? Example like “Dear, my light bulb spoilt adi. Can you come over my hostel to change?” And the idiot just go take a flight from KL to Penang, just to change the light bulb in USM. See. And she just fell over heels in love for his act. Come on. Realistic a bit can ah? Sometimes, it might just an act. Trying to get her to fall in love with you. And measuring that act and when one day.. “You don’t love me anymore!!! I have to call you 72121934 times just to get you to change the light bulb” . See, that’s the disaster to measure a person’s affection towards you.
How about spending time? The longer you with him/her means you love them more? Measuring the love by time? come on. It’s not the way. Like people say, you’ve been with him/her for so and so years. So what? Does it means that you love him/her more? So meaning longer they been together mean the love is deep enough? Puhhleezzz…!! Love is not logic afterall. It’s not like maths. One plus one equals to two.
Physically? Haha. Considering a hot passionate animal-like sex means the measurement of the love? Given she/he willing to go the distance in the love making arts as a love measurement? To me, that’s not true. However, I do agree that if they swallow, that’s the act of love. Yeah baby!! (just to please)
Bleargh. The more you measure. the more issue coming out. Nevermind. Here’s some pic taken from the trip after the jump…
Makan-ing at Onn Kee, famous in Ipoh.
The tender juicy fish ball. I like the soup. Best!
Chicken for 2? Yeah. Only me and my colleague. Call him AN.
On this day..
- september 16 - 2008
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- Monday Thought - 2008
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