This is a very good question I ever asked myself. In fact, I never asked myself a good question before? Nope. Just that this one keeps me pondering. Wondering what if and all those possibilities.
It is easier to put it this way. Let say I myself as a case study. One day, I happened to get to know a girl. She’s cute, smart, pretty, a darling and everything nice words to describe her for a start. Then I fall in love with her. So deep so hard. It’s like way beyond words can describe. Now, she says she’s going to further her studies overseas. We better remains as friends. Maybe one day if we meet again, she and I might have a chance. That’s her promise to me and my promise to her. So, will you still wait for her? I asked myself. What if one day, came along another girl, who similarly captured your heart? What will be my stance?
Or should I start flirting around and have fun first while waiting for her? There’s too much possibilities to considered about.
Second case which will be much more complicated. This time, Kenny-Ng like a girl. He confessed to her and turned out that she doesn’t have any feelings towards him. But Kenny really cannot control himself and fall in love so deep, so deep. Now that she asked to remains as friends and yet Kenny reluctantly accepted that offer.
But nonetheless Kenny still have the love towards her and he told he that he don’t mind if she is seeing someone else already. He say he wanted to wait for her. He will wait for her. He stayed persistent for few years. Then one day, Kenny came to know AhLian and AhLian offered herself to Kenny. The thing is that Kenny is very faithful to his dream girl. Now that the dream girl is seeing someone and going steady, chances are that he might not stand a chance anymore with his dream girl.
Since AhLian kind of like him, should he go ahead with AhLian? I mean since the food is being fed to the lion’s mouth. To eat or not to eat?
I kind of forgotten the third case. Was interrupted by an email. Anyway, coming back to these matters above. It is hard to justify for the answers. In fact, I also wouldn’t know what I would do until the time I’m in the situation. I’m not sure whether are you guys going to be truthful to me or to yourselves or not. Do you realized that most of the time when we go shopping, we go and look for the clothes we like. Let say a dress for an example. In fact, the other day I was accompany a friend from Penang to go shopping in Sg. Wang Plaza. She saw a purple colour dress and after a while shopping around, she ended up going back Penang with a black colour dress. What she did? She realized her mistake and try to consent herself by telling herself that she like the black more. In fact, I knew that she still wanted to purple colour dress despite her denial.
Not everyone was lucky to fall in love with a person and ended their lives as husband and wife together forever. If those who does, let us congratulate to them. Life is like that. It’s like we always bound to be constraint by certain limitation. Like example, when we go for food like the other day we went to Tsim Tung with Wingz, Boon, LinPeh and CKYeo. What happened was I was looking at the price in the menu instead of the food I desired. Why? Simply because I was constraint by the money I had. Maybe in love relationship is also the same. Who loves who more? The boy or the girl. Someone have to be on the giving side while the other receiving.
My question to myself was, will I wait? If I were in both situation, I can’t even tell what I wanted. In fact, if at this moment I were to give an answer I would believe my answer would be yes! I will wait. I will wait for her. I believe as for now, as my view of life and relationship is based on my current self. In future, I don’t know whether I will still stay the same. For the only reason is that this decision to wait for her was the only answer I can find it acceptable to myself.
You see, God created man based on the image of himself. He made Eve out of Adam’s rib. So, my conclusion is that for everything that happened in our lives is happened within His plan. Let leave it to Him to do the rest as the entire picture reveal itself pieces by pieces. Meantime, let’s enjoy our lives here, this moment right now. Live in present. Blessed that every single day you can wake up and see the sun rises again. For everyday is a new hope for you.
How about you? Will you wait?
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