Sense Of Belonging

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Do you feel any? Any sense of belonging yet? Wait a minute. I'm not belonging to anyone. So, there's no sense of belonging one. Don't say husband and wife lah. Not even boyfriend/girlfriend relationship also lah. 

 

That's not my point. In fact, I was thinking that everyone seek to be part of something. Like the other day during a tender clarification, my colleague found out that there are some Penangites in the room so he quickly announce that he is Penang kia. Wah, quickly find the sense of belonging with them. Can relate and find a common acceptance level. At least they won't hold back to him since he is also Penang 'lang' ((read as "lung" which mean people in hokkien)). But one thing for sure which everyone in the room agreed upon. Penangites "sibeh" ((extremely)) "kiam siap" ((stingy)). Hahaha…. 

 

Just like the other day when I had lunch with my customers, I realized that one of them was also from Setapak High. Something to relate to. Then the conversation starts going on and on. So much to talk about and suddenly, there's no barrier anymore. There's no longer a wall between because both also Setapakians. Hehe!!! Indeed, and he even asked me to bring my school magazine when I drop by his office next time. Wow, can't even imagine that being able to relate to someone can actually bridge the gap.

 

Just like football, when Kenny and CKYeo was discussing about Manchester United, there's seem endless topic to talk about. Suddenly become buddies. That's because they both belong to Man U. But what if you can't? Just learn lor. Like my manager shared to me that there's this colleague (from her previous company) that knew the boss a huge fan of Man U. What he does was the next day, his desktop wallpaper become Man U Wallpaper, and start talking about Man U matches. The boss noticed him and then, he was quickly promoted. *Please be advise that this is not encouraged*

 

How about blogging? How do you relate to the blogger? You simply go up to the person and told him/her that you are a big fan of him/her. Read the blog daily and tell the whole world you know them. *yeah right* So fake! Do at your own risk. 

 

Bleargh.  

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  • http://www.ahpek.com Ah Pek

    you really want a sense of belonging hor, go and join some gang. you sure feel very “belonged” wan.
    no need. I already know some of the gang list
    red spot
    red flower
    new kids
    around my area

  • http://www.ahpek.com Ah Pek

    you really want a sense of belonging hor, go and join some gang. you sure feel very “belonged” wan.
    no need. I already know some of the gang list
    red spot
    red flower
    new kids
    around my area

  • http://rojaks.blogspot.com Wingz

    eh eh … i know u wan!!! i read your blog!!! will u be my frend?! plssss
    =.=”

  • http://rojaks.blogspot.com Wingz

    eh eh … i know u wan!!! i read your blog!!! will u be my frend?! plssss
    =.=”

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