Infidelity…..such a fine line.
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Today at 1:46pm
Sometimes I get a little confused as to what counts as infidelity. My friends and I had this conversation where we were trying to define what infidelity means. One friend said something that made me uneasy and confused. She said that “chatting” counts as cheating and is a dangerous behavior because it can lead to things. i’ve always considered chatting a harmless behavior, just like poking, sending kisses and hugs, those are harmless flirting and should be fine, right? For example, when I send hugs, or kisses I send them to both male and female friends and dun give it much thought as to the deeper “meaning” behind it other than that i feel affection for whoever i sent it to as a friend. I mean seriously who the heck takes these things seriously right?
Then we moved on to things that she considers dangerous behaviors…..such as going out and having drinks or a meal with a male friend, even if it is harmless lunch or tea. In short she thinks that people who are attached are not advised to develop close friendships with members of the opposite sex.
Now I am all confused 0_0 WHY can’t men and women be friends? Is our society so closed minded that people with close friends of the opposite sex are often barraged with nudging, winking and skepticism: “Are you really just friends?”
Seriously as a woman I happen to think men make great friends too, they are fun, they make great jokes, they are not as sensitive about things, etc etc.
Sigh…I dunno anymore
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